The communication style of leaders helps us distinguish great leaders from the wannabes.
When facing a problem the great leader says, ‘Let’s find out,’ while the wannabe says, ‘Nobody knows.’
Great leaders communicate commitment while wannabe leaders make promises.
Great leaders have the capacity to listen while wannabes can’t wait for their turn to talk.
Great leaders say ‘There is a better way to do this’, while wannabes say ‘This is the way we have always done things around here.’
Great leaders say ‘I’m a good leader, but could do better” while the wannabe says ‘I’m better than a lot of people.’
Great leaders take accountability for their mistakes while the wannabe points fingers and says ‘It’s your fault.’
Reed Markham, PhD, educator and author, Georgia Leadership Series
The same is true for the great influencers in life, whatever your title or career may be.
Coaching Questions:
- How many of the above traits do you recognise in yourself?
- How can you adopt more empowering behaviours?
- How can you do more of those that are working for you?
Have a great week developing the influencer in you!